A Redditor father had shared a story on Reddit’s “AITA” subreddit. The father stated that his daughter was so rude and terribly behaved against their housemaid, so the man ended up with punishing his daughter.
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The man stated that he has a 16-year-old daughter, and the father noticed that his daughter developed a strange behaviour. She was making comments on people’s looks, belongings and calling them names.
“It’s like she lost a filter or something because usually she’s polite but my wife suspected that our daughter’s sudden misbehavior occurred after she started hanging out with new girls from the school. Basically the mean type and have picked on their behavior.” OP wrote.
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Then the father talked with his duaghter, and stated that she should change her behaviour against others.
“Our housemaid is the person most affected here and my daughter has chosen her to be her target for hair, clothes, “etiquette” criticism. She has complained about our daughter calling her offensive names like filthy and gross for cleaning certain areas in our house. I took a stand and explicitly told my daughter I’d punish her if she ever said stuff like that to our housemaid again.” OP continued in his story.
On the week before OP shared the story, he explained that his daughter planning to go to a party, and earlier that day, he called their housemaid “filthy.” After that, OP had punished his daughter with not letting her go to the party.
“She threw a fit and called our housemaid a liar saying she never called her that. That was the end of it.” OP wrote.
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And a day before OP shared the story, his daughter came and stated that her phone was missing. She wanted from her father to call her phone. “My wife and I were stunned to discover that the iphone was ringing inside our housemaid’s bag. I had an confrontation with her immediately and she denied and cried saying she never touched the phone nor had any idea how it got there.”
OP stated that his daughter was calling their housemaids thief constantly. Then OP sent his daughter to her room, and decided to check the indoor cameras. He was shocked when he saw his daughter planting her phone into the maid’s bag.
“I was livid. I apologized to the housemaid and gave her the rest of the day off. I then showed the video to my daughter and she was absolutely speechless.”
He stated that what she did was not normal and immoral.
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OP concluded as, “I told her she was grounded and will have to spend the night in the backyard (she is a germaphobe) but she cried begging me to not make her sleep with the dirt, insects and hot temp. I refused to discuss it or I’d make it 2 nights. My wife said I should go easy on her but I said calling people filthy and accusing them of stealing wasn’t ok in fact it was the absolute worst, I then went through with my punishment.”
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